I want to post this e-mail from fifty send to one of my friends.
I will highlight some sections,like where she refers to herself in the 3rd person. I find that odd and I attribute that to a split personality. Unless you all have a different explanation?
Edited to add some new stuff.
This e-mail was also send to my friend by fifty.
She really needs to do some legal research before trying to scare us LMAO.
Stephanie,
On the advice of my lawyer and for the record, I am contacting you to formally request that you immediately cease and desist your inflamatory, libelous and actionable behaviour where I and my family members are concerned, on the internet. Also for the record I offer you my sincere apology for whatever action on my part you presume to find so objectionable that instead of working it out like adults, you resort to such defamation. I hope that you will take this seriously and agree to move on, as I will, and we can agree to disagree and leave each other in peace. I f I don't hear from you within 7 days, I will take that as your refusal to settle this matter. Ann Marie --
Carpe Diem! - That means YOU! LOL
Last time I looked.lawyers don't tell their clients to send e-mails, not even in Canada LOL. Get it right fifty will ya? LMAO
From: **************** (itsreallymefifty@*********.com)
You may not know this sender. Mark as safe Mark as unsafe Sent:Sat 2/23/08 2:38 PM
To: *************@hotmail.com
dragonryder commented in a discussion called It's Been Fun! in mylot.com.
1 month ago I might log in to see if I have any messages or new replies to old discussions, but I'll not do that too often. I don't think I'll be replying to any discussions anymore, and definitely not doing any of my own. I've enjoyed your discussions and replies. Take care.
Steph, And you call me a liar! LOL Your own words prove you wrong, AGAIN! And feed me any crap that it was Bird not you. It was BOTH of you. You did come back, and you posted, and YOU started things up all over again because it's YOU who can't let go. HOWEVER, Let's look at this with a bit of perspective. When the comments below were posted, I am sure that they were true at the time. So you didn't lie. BUT, you saw something on site that got your dander up and so you DID return and post.
Understandable up to a point. What is wrong with this scenario is that in posting what you did, it showed that YOU were not able to get beyond the past and true to the form of the cancers I wrote about, jumped to all the wrong conclusions, made all the wrong assumptions and ended up opening a whole new can of worms and destroying whatever peace Lounge had managed to make with your friends. If you had just kept your feelings about LordLoves discussion to personal emails or pms and found out the FACTS before you started throwing mud again, you would have realized that your assumptions were wrong and that Lounge was doing what 50 by herself couldn't. Making friends and putting the past in the past.
So you have NO ONE to blame this time around Steph but yourself. What is so sad is that you will never take responsbility for the one moment of anger on your part that resulted in all the ugliness of the past weeks. And when I say take responsibility, I mean, post on the mylotbites blog about me, that YES it was YOU jumping to the wrong conclusions that got MY dander up again and resulted in posting another entry on my own blog to draw you cancers off of mylot so you all could exhaust your vitriol against me there and let the site get back to normal. As I have often said, I live in hope, but this time around you've pronen that to hope you all would just get your bitching over with and move on is not an option. You will never understand that my blog entries weren't JUST to out you and your friends behaviour. A lot of them were to keep you all from going postal on my friends there like you did in the past, as well as to express my own opinion of things you said and did. I am done with my blog. You can take that to the bank.
My last entry has been made and Max, you gotta love his consistency! lol, has proven it right again. You people will never see the responsibility you bear yourselves and I'm tired of beating my head against the wall. Especially since you and your friends have no problem saying the most disgusting and unnecessary things about my children. I have NEVER done that to you or anyone esle and never would. That's the difference between your low life thinking and my 'taking the higher road'. A concept you'll never fully grasp, but I gave it my best shot to make you understand. Not my problem you really can't comprehend the English language on the level it expressed instead of the low level you give to it. Be at peace Steph, please. Leave me and mine alone, and I WILL return the respect.
dragonryder commented in a discussion called It's Been Fun! in mylot.com. 1 month ago I doubt I'll come back. I've just lost interest. Take care of yourself. --
Carpe Diem! - That means YOU! LOL
Again,putting people down for the way they speak and also not taking any responisibility whatsoever.
I like to clarify that we all have taken responsibility for this drama and tried putting it behind us,but she just won't let us.
The reason why Bird,Steph and us are friends now,is because we talked about things like adults and each of us took responisibility for our behavior,apologized and moved on.
But then,Bird and Steph are caring, responsible and sensible adults with a conscience, Something that can't be said for fifty.
Here is my friends reply to her e-mail.
Fair is Fair I am really amazed how over the last 8 months that when ever you had the chance to bash us in your blog, you did or had your friends do some stupid post about us at mylot. Then you have the gall to sit there and tell my wife that she can’t let it go. What a hypocrite. You are so full of your self righteous bull crap aren’t you. The only time she has ever said anything is in a response to something you did or you had one of your minions do. She hasn’t continued this, you have. You have accused her of stuff that she did not do. Just like your accusing her of keeping this going in this BS email of yours. What amazes me so much is how you call others cancer when you do the same things that you badmouth them for. How many times did you use foul language in your blog. How many times did you harass these people on mylot with your discussions about them. How many times did you come back to mylot and break the rules. But everyone else is to be held to a higher standard than the great Fifty. Rules apply to everyone else but her. You don’t like the fact that there is now a blog out there that you cannot control what is said. Oh well, get use to it. It’s not going away. For 8 months I put up with your out right lies about me, my wife and our friends (especially my wife). I am done with your crap. Just like you, we have the right to express our opinions and to tell the truth as we see it. If you don’t like it. Oh well! If the truth hurts. Tough crap!!! You are the one that has been proven time and time again to have a problem with reality. Maybe you should try living in it sometime. You making yourself out to be the better person in this is BS. You have been made out to be what you really are, a fake. For example, the Trollit blog where you are using the very language you condemn others for. I can see where your son Trevor gets it from. But he is a big man threatening a woman. But wait, both your little wimps do that. Tell your boys if they want to threaten someone, try me. Then they can see what a Irishman can do.
Sunday, March 2, 2008
Keep them e-mails coming
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OMG
LEGAL EMAIL???
ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!
Whatever fifty....if that lawyer was to come after me...I'd represent myself he's so dumb lollllllll
This is ANOTHER post that just shows how much of a control freak you really are....I almost hear the boots hitting the pavement and the
HI HITLER in the background when you post LMAO!!!
Please keep em coming fifty....sooooooo funny LMAO!!
I just want to make it clear that the "legal" email was sent Feb. 14th and wasn't opened until March 2nd. Because there was no reply within the 7 days, the second email was sent. They were both sent to my husband's email, not mine. Furthermore, I have not ever been libelous toward her or her family anywhere on the internet. She on the other hand has, by saying I have badmouthed my family, one of her sons said I had a lesbian affair according to his mom (Ann Marie), and she has accused me of altering emails from her in the past. She can prove none of this. To my knowledge, anything I have mentioned about her or her family has been my opinion or the truth. Whatever I can't back up with proof, is simply my opinion, such as the possibility of her one son being a dick sucker. He was filthy with me, and though it's not right of me, I got filthy right back. How convenient that blog entry with the nasty comments by Ann Marie and her sons is no longer online. I do have it saved to file though. As for me being inflammatory and showing actionable behavior online in regards to Ann Marie and her family, they have done the same to me and my family, and were the first ones to instigate. I suppose I am just supposed to ignore the fact that I have been badmouthed online? I would also like to know why I am the only one being targeted by her to "cease and desist". I am not the only one who has made negative mention of her and her family. Ann Marie has no right to ask me to leave her and her family alone, when she is the one who started a blog against me, my husband and others for no reason other than she got caught breaking the rules of Mylot, and making threats of having viruses sent to people. If we were and are so horrible to people at Mylot then why are we all still there? Maybe not actively posting, but not with banned accounts like her. It's funny how she waits until she and her sons show their true colors and starts deleting blog entries before she emails me via my husband to leave them alone. Then she does another blog entry. I also love how she blames me for destroying any amount of peace my friends had with her son at Mylot, who would be Loungact. How did I destroy it? As for not being able to get beyond the past because I responded to Thelordloves, and that shows how true I am to being an online cancer, I was only standing up for a friend that was badmouthed by this person. Ann Marie has done that in the past for people at Mylot. Why is it ok for her and not me? I already admitted in a comment in her deleted Trollit blog entry that I was wrong to assume Thelordloves was her. Again it's ok for her to assume things she can't prove, but I can't do that. I still don't see how my jumping to conclusions about Thelordloves justifies the Trollit blog entry, let alone the nasty comments left by Ann Marie and her sons for that blog entry. The only thing I am guilty of is accusing her of being Thelordloves without proper proof. I have admitted that before. Of course it's no longer on the internet because she deleted that blog entry and the comments. So you want me to take responsibility? Well here it is! I am sorry for accusing you of being Thelordloves.
She has it in for you guys bad.She just loves to blame you guys for everything. She is the one instigating shit all the time. What about that topic about the saint who slayed the dragon?
She needs to start taking responisibility for having her part in this,because everybody else already has.
Btw,I do think she was theLordLoves so I am not apologizing for making that assumption.
This one phrase of hers kills me "YES it was YOU jumping to the wrong conclusions that got MY dander up again and resulted in posting another entry on my own blog to draw you cancers off of mylot"
Wait a minute, she is blaming others for her actions??
So is she saying she has no control over herself and her actions? If that is the case she needs some serious help right away,of the professional kind.
If anybody ever watched movies on tv about men beating their women, they always say " You made me do it, if you wouldn't make me so angry I wouldn't have to hit you".
These guys have mental issues too and so it makes perfect sense that she does as well.
Using someone as a scapegoat is actually a psychological problem it seems,look at what I found:
DEFINING SCAPEGOATING
Scapegoating is a hostile social - psychological discrediting routine by which people move blame and responsibility away from themselves and towards a target person or group. It is also a practice by which angry feelings and feelings of hostility may be projected, via inappropriate accusation, towards others. The target feels wrongly persecuted and receives misplaced vilification, blame and criticism; he is likely to suffer rejection from those who the perpetrator seeks to influence. Scapegoating has a wide range of focus: from "approved" enemies of very large groups of people down to the scapegoating of individuals by other individuals. Distortion is always a feature.
Sounds like someone we know? LOL
She seems to have a host pf mental problems and I really do hope she starts getting professional help before she drives all of us looney too lol.
Ok, Stephanie hardly had anything to do with this recent outbreak of issues.
This is silliness.
Why is Stephanie blamed and why is she sending email to Stephanie's husband instead of Stephanie?
I get it, Fifty doesn't like the fact that Stephanie and her used to be friends and then Stephanie decided that the friendship wasn't healthy and left it.
This was a long time ago, and well.... it is time for Fifty to move on. Thing is, Stephanie HAS moved on. Stephanie stopped mentioning Fifty entirely a long time ago. When Fifty left the scene, Stephanie dropped it. I know this because I read Stephanie's posts. It was a non-issue until Fifty popped back up to pick on her all over again.
Sure some people would suggest that Stephanie ignore Fifty, however not everyone can simply ignore being called a lesbian or people making comments about some questionable activities that aren't true. Not everyone can ignore PRIVATE things that were told to Fifty when they were FRIENDS being dragged out and displayed for all to see on the internet. That to me shows LOW morals and character. Private things in one's life and experiences shared with another about themself, even after the death of a friendship should remain a secret. That was told in confidence and had nothing to do with anyone else or anything currently going on in which to rationalise sharing private personal business with everyone.
Stephanie is a really caring and sensitive person and I find her to be a truely wonderful friend myself. I can only imagine what sort of thing a person would have to do to make Stephanie not want to be their friend any longer.
However, her friendship with Fifty ended on Stephanies decision. I can understand that Fifty may have been sad at losing a friendship, but I don't understand the constant crusade on Stephanie now?
Stephanie shared things that directly had an impact on a majority of us BECAUSE she knew it was wrong and she has the morals to understand that such a thing that Fifty was doing was wrong. Her only action was to alert and warn.... What did she find? She had a talk with those involved and found that she was easily forgiven and taken in to make new friends. This is regardless of sharing info.... They had an adult talk. However, I am quite positive that Fifty is beyond all possibilities to be forgiven. She can only hope to be forgotten and she should just knock off her tired bullshit now and get a life. Grow up and move on there are many things out there to amuse yourself with that have nothing to do with bothering others. Just grow up and move on.
P.S. Pretending and threatening legal action is really childish. 1- Nothing is going to happen if you even tried legal action. A) it is impossible to get anything done about slander on the internet because YOU done enough of that yourself. B) The courts seriously would laugh at your ass because this is all he said she said bullshit.
2- You would have been advised to not respond and to ignore. You haven't done that honey, and you keep egging it on with your bullshit emails. LEAVE STEPHANIE ALONE!
SSH
Wow, Hobo, I am so deeply touched by your words. You hardly know me, and to have you defend me that way, and put the nice things you did, is very touching. Despite what has been expressed about me by Ann Marie and some of her friends, I don't take friendship lightly. I've mentioned before why I chose to not be friends with her. There are basically three reasons. She began to have different personalities and it freaked me out. The biggest thing was when I shared an email from my old friend Mary Beth with her, and without my asking or my knowledge, she emailed Mary Beth and was very nasty. Even though my friendship had fallen apart with Mary Beth, I still cared about her. I asked Ann Marie not to email her anymore, but she did. Secondly, after I was banned from Mylot and was emailing people I thought would help get me reinstated, after about a week I think, Ann Marie emailed me and told me I needed to stop bugging everyone, that she was getting emailed about all the emails I was sending and that people were irritated with me. She also mentioned things that she shouldn't have known about why Mylot banned me and wouldn't reinstate me, plus she said it was my own fault for keeping things going with all of you. She said I started the whole thing and wouldn't let it go. She also contradicted herself because when I was first banned, she blamed all of you, and said you all were carrying on at Bites how you were going to get me banned, knowing that would make me mad and I would finally go to Bites. She had been trying for awhile to get me to go there and "spy" for her, but I wouldn't do it. Well in the email she sent after awhile of my trying to get reinstated with the help of others, she said that I was banned for multiple accounts. That wasn't at all true. Thirdly, and most importantly, I realized that what we were doing in regards to all of you was wrong. I am big enough to admit when I'm wrong. Even if I wouldn't have had all of the info I did from her against all of you, I still would have apologized for my behavior. I know my replying to her in her blog, and now putting things here is wrong too. I did ignore most of her blogs, but there have been certain points where I felt it was necessary to reply. I regret letting my emotions turn to anger toward her and her sons. I feel if I say it was because I was lashed out at first, that I would be blaming them for my behavior. I know I am responsible for the way I expressed myself. Now in regards to her emails sent to my husband's email, it's actually quite funny. She seems pretty desperate, doesn't she? In a way I feel honored that she blames me for so much. It's like she is saying I have some great power or something. I know she has problems, mentally and emotionally. I'm actually used to being blamed for things. My mom did it to me my whole life. I've also had my share of problems as a mom and wife. I blame myself for most of it. I am good at putting blame on myself anyway, so I guess it shouldn't bother me to have anyone else do it. I wanted to walk away from her and this situation a long time ago. I guess if I'd have stayed away from Thelordloves maybe things wouldn't be back to this point. This blog of ours has been great for me in the matters of expressing myself in regards to the situation with Ann Marie. It's also bad too, in that as long as I post here, I am keeping things going. So, unless there is something else posted blog or comment wise, or unless something else happens somewhere else online that involves me, my family or friends, I feel it's time for me to not put anything else into this blog. I will leave with a big thank you to all who believe in me. You have given me the strength to believe in myself. Thank you.
bah steph post all you want....I am amused by all this and so should you ....just tell all you want to say to her right here lolll
Wow, Ann Marie, how embarassing for you. Is there any particular reason you can't simply let this go and you must keep digging a hole for yourself? I mean, do you really think an email holds any legal weight? Really?
I hope you get your money back from your lawyer or sue him for malpractice.
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