Well, after reading through her blog again, I found something very interesting that I feel deserves a blog entry all by itself.
I'm only on my second cup of coffee,so bear with me lol.
From previous blogs we all know that fifty has been banned from mylot many months ago. Of course she felt it was unjustified,despite her threats and cyber terrorism.
Now here is one of her blog entries I just discovered.
Fifty said:
"So she is still posting on mylot under her husband's name. Not legal for anyone else according to guidelines, but I guess being on the 'inside' now gives her certain priviledges. Lucky her! Just wish if she had nothing to fear from admin, that she would have the courage to identify herself. I know others who feel the same way. But then, the modis operendi of such people is to abuse and confuse."
She is talking about one of our friends who got banned so she posted under her husbands account once in awhile so she can defend herself against fifties wild accusations.
Now, according to fifty it's against guidelines and that she should identify herself.
Now wait a minute, didn't fifty have numerous accounts, posing as her cousin for once,imanmaree if I remember correctly,which mysteriously dissappeared after her suspension got lifted (she was banned for good a while later)? And does she not post under her sons account (Loungeact) now? Well according to her that is against guidelines, so how is it ok for her to do so but yet she rags on others for doing so?I do think it was her from the getgo and never her son.one just has to look at the posts and you can tell they were not made by a 24 year old man but by an old woman.
Further down in her blog she says:
"I will not apologize for anything I have said in these blog entries, or for my attitude against abusive and narrowminded thinking and expression. Unless they continue to make false and inflammatory statements, discussions, or topics about me that need addressing, I will leave them alone. You have my word on that, and though it won't mean anything to them, it does mean something to me and many others."
Well that was posted december 14th 2007 and yet she keeps going on, calling us out by name and accusing us of all kinds of atrocities. This goes to show what a liar she is and how good her word is.
Fifty said:
"As for my having a lawyer - well wouldn't you if you were in my shoes? It just seemed a prudent move for me to make when Rip stepped over the line publishing my private emails, and the fallout began."
The fallout began way before that.
Yes, I did indeed post her e-mails on mylot when her friends harassed us for getting her banned, because they wanted to see proof of her cyber terrorism.When I was accused of making it up, I posted her e-mail adress as well as proof they are real. Yes,maybe that was wrong,but it's not like I drew a map to her house for crying out loud lol.Anyway, she claimed way back then that those e-mails are fake, so thank you fifty for finally admitting you wrote those vile things.
She went ahead and posted private posts from our forum on mylot, how is that so different?
Again she takes liberties she doesn't want anybody else to have. Everything is good and well as long as it comes from her.
I find it's time to give you all the link to her posts to see what kind of crap she writes and go and pick it apart and compare it to facts and see what I'm talking about.
http://itsreallymefifty.blogspot.com/
Sunday, February 24, 2008
The Many Faces of Fifty
Posted by Riptide at 11:33 AM
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Wow Rip, that's some great shit. You are so correct that it wasn't until some of her friends gave us a hard time that the emails were posted. And of course, even though it may be against the rules at Mylot to post such information, it's not against any law. Once she puts that info out there it's not private anymore. And it definitely is no difference in regards to posting information falsely obtained from your website and posting the emails she sent to me. I never expected her to own up to what was in the emails, but her constant accusation that I or anyone else altered them is pretty pathetic. As far as me posting at Mylot in my husband's account after I had been banned in my own, that's a little different. I didn't break the rules to be banned. I was banned, as she claims, for having two accounts, which I didn't. If it bothered her so much that I was posting in Bird's account, she could have reported it. If she did, apparently no one at Mylot thought much of it. I don't know if I ever shared any of the emails with some of you that she sent to my old online friend Mary Beth, but she was absolutely vile in them, and she didn't even know the woman. Yet she belittles us and calls us low lifes for our foul language. Oh, and her "cousin's" account was Imanaree. It's still at Mylot but of course there are no posts. www.mylot.com/imanaree I totally agree that it's apparent it's been her doing the majority, if not all of the posts under the Loungeact account. Even with her admittance at Mylot that she's been posting in it, the account hasn't been banned yet. I guess the people at Mylot have forgiven her for all of the badmouthing she did against them in the past and the threats she made in regards to their website? Or maybe, she and some of her friends who once vowed to take over Mylot have finally done it, or at least have some kind of foot in the virtual door?
I have been reading and reading for the past 2 days and I still don't get it.
I know this woman of which you speak and I know many of you in the same capacity. What are any of you getting out of this? How many times do the same things have to be said by you guys and by her? It's the same shit reworded over and over again for what?
Ok, you know she is a cyber terrorist and you won't rest until EVERYONE shares your opinion of her. Great I get it!
She won't rest until she makes you guys see the light and become better people and stop flaming her and "her friends" and just let the past alone. Great I get it!
But what the hell is the point?!? You don't like her. She doesn't like you. You don't like the idiots who have their heads so far up her ass that they can tell what she had for lunch as soon as she gets done chewing it.
She doesn't like the people who jump on the bash fifty bandwagon just because it is the "cool" thing to do regardless of whether or not these friends of yours were ever "targeted"(just using your wording) by her directly.
I can see where both sides have a reason to be angry, pissed off, and any other adjective you would like to use to describe your hatred towards each other but I cannot help but wonder WHY THE FUCK CAN'T ALL OF YOU (you and your friends and her and her friends) LET IT THE FUCK ALONE?
Here is a story. Maybe (even though I am not holding my breath)after some of you read it you will see why some people make the choices they do.
John is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!"
He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, John was there telling the employee how to look on the positive s ide of the situation.
Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up and asked him, "I don't get it!
You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"
He replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or ... you can choose to be in a bad mood.
I choose to be in a good mood."
Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or...I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it.
Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or... I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.
"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested.
"Yes, it is," he said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people affect your mood.
You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live your life."
I reflected on what he said. Soon hereafter, I left the Tower Industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.
Several years later, I heard that he was involved in a serious accident, falling some 60 feet from a communications tower.
After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, he was released from the hospital with rods placed in his back.
I saw him about six months after the accident.
When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins...Wanna see my scars?"
I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through his mind as the accident took place.
"The first thing that went through my mind was the well-being of my soon-to-be born daughter," he replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or...I could choose to die. I chose to live."
"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked.
He continued, "..the paramedics were great.
They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read 'he's a dead man'. I knew I needed to take action."
"What did you do?" I asked.
"Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said John. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes, I replied.' The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Gravity'."
Over their laughter, I told them, "I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."
He lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude... I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully.
Attitude, after all, is everything.
And personally the attitude of everyone in this group and the other group really leaves a lot to be desired.
I have said my peace on this. I'm done. Someone alert me when playtime is over and the adults return from their maturity break!
Wow, that was really deep. Too bad you want to be immature yourself and hide who you are. You are right that we all play a part in this situation. You need to remember who started it though, who walked away, while the one who started it kept it going. I suppose all of us who have been accused of things that aren't true should just laugh about it and not comment? Every time we have made a choice to ignore Ann Marie, she has put things out there that make it virtually impossible to not reply. Our blog may not seem logical to some, but to us it is extremely logical. It is our outlet. If she never comes here to defend herself, that's her choice. The blog isn't here for her. It's here for us. We don't expect anyone to come here and read our words and say "Oh hey, I think that woman was wrong and these people are right!", or say that they too have had bad experiences with Ann Marie. We do expect people to come here and be critical. Why? Because we know she knows about this blog and it's in her nature to have people come here and make her out to be the saint she thinks she is. We are not out there telling people we know that have had bad experiences with her to come here and tell their story. They would probably be too afraid to because then they would be a target of hers. As much as I agree that attitude is everything, and having a positive attitude is great, there are times when you just have to fight, and if it means being negative, it's all about making everything positive again. Maybe if you were accused of things you'd never done or expressed to the extent this woman has done to us, you might understand more. If you have experienced this and handled it differently than we are, that's great. Just please don't come here and put us down for handling the situation we feel is best for us. There is no wrong or right, bad or good.
wonder who that vixen is....If it's an insider...then I really wish they would have the balls to say who they are...but it dont really matter....we aint looking for ANY kind of approval here...we are just EXPOSING THE TRUTH....if the truth isnt what spins your reel....then GO READ A COMIC BOOK OR SOMETHING.....
I really don't care WHO you are and WHAT you are....but I yawn at the story.....BORING...so unless you have something to add to the blog,then refrain from trying to push YOUR moral values on us...
All you have to do if you want to find out if you know this Vixen woman is click on her name with her comment here. It takes you to an AIM profile page, and at the bottom right of the page there are two links. The first one has pictures. I don't know who she is.
I want to point out that there are 2 ends to a email. Just because one sends it doesn't mean that they solely own it. Thus her permission is not needed to publish those emails. So the truth can be posted.
Second. She has had more than 3 accounts at mylot.Imannree (tard), itsreallymefifty, loungeact and the one she used with her friend annabellaleigh. This account was cancelled after she was caught using it. How funny she screams foul when she does the same evil things she accuses others of.
You said not to post anonymously. You didn't say to post my real name, e-mail address, social security number and blood type. I used my AOL screen name to post and left my profile opened for any of you to see. What more do you want?
Look. I didn't come in here to bash anyone or to try to make anyone stop this kind of thing. I sometimes get a laugh out of what you all say to each other.
I was just trying to point out from reading your blog and reading her blog and thinking I have finally been able to piece together the whole story I just don't see the point in it.
I see where you need to rant. I see how this could alleviate your frustrations. I can also see how her blog does the same for her.
If both groups are doing the same things for the same reasons then when will it ever end?
I don't see how this is healthy but Steph was right. I don't need to because I'm not involved. No one from either side of this battle has ever done anything negative to me. I was just posting my opinion from an "outsiders" point of view.
And just to clarify. Max, I never said I was an insider. I just have "friends" (if you can classify an internet knowledge of another person as a friendship) in both groups of this feud, not that I am in the middle of the action.
Hi missvixen
The thing is, we did stop and everytime we do she starts her bullshit again.She never stops. She might lay low for while but then whenever somebody says something on mylot that has absolutely nothing to do with her,but in her narcissistic mind it has to be about her,she starts her shit again.
She lies and manipulates to get her way. She deleted so much of he blog, where she got caught in lies, but we have quite a bit of it saved.
You know what they say about weeds? They keep coming back. You have to plug them out at the root and that's what I want to do with this blog.
I want to expose her once her for all,so that she will leave us alone for good.
How come Vixen that someone claims we cut your comment here???On fifty's blog apperently we didnt publish your comment....hmmmmm wonder who's playing a game here....
It's just another way of making us look bad Max, it never stops, which is why I will never stop until her pitbull self takes her teeth out of me.
Vixen, I did not say you needed to use your real name, email, etc. I am just bothered that you claim you know some of us, but you won't say who or how. I also don't like it that you refer to me as Steph. That is a nickname that is only reserved for friends and family. I looked at your page with your photos and I don't know who you are. I think you have some good advice to offer, but unless this stuff is happening to you, it's hard for you to completely understand. I would love nothing more than to have this all stop. After the things I have been blamed for and threatened with it's not as easy as forgetting.
Where at in Fifty's blog does it say that Miss Vixen's comment was allowed here?
It's under the liar liar blog comments Steph,made by JustWondering and when that poster was called on it she came up with same lame excuse that she made an honest mistake but that now we proved how nasty we are, She also referred to us as mylotbiters, a term that she wouldn't use unless she has been there.
Instead of just admitting she made a mistake and aplogizing,she justifies her nastiness, that is fifties MO. So it's either her or one of her assdwellers.
Not vixen,JustWondering, god forbid I don't want to be misunderstood by her cronies again.
Thanks for the comment riptide. I don't follow every single thread every single person who can be linked to this craziness posts so I can't say one way or another how one interprets what is written.
I do recall a discussion about St. George the dragon slayer that got deleted and I also recall a discussion about Coke or Pepsi, oh no wait that has been done already that got deleted.
Both of these discussion were completely HARMLESS and well within guidelines to anyone not familiar with all of this back story. Yet both of these discussions are now gone because groups upon groups of people reported abuse because they could find "personal attacks" in them about other users.
It just seems like a lot of work for nothing. But like I said, I'm not here to change anyones opinions of anyone. I keep reading only in the hopes that someone will make some profound proclamation and like a light in the dark, it all will become clear to me. That is if I don't drive myself insane first.
And Max, I have no idea what you're talking about. My comment is here or else there would be nothing for me to comment back to. I didn't see where I was ever mentioned in 50's blog. But I have done so much reading the past two days my eyes hurt and it is possible I missed it.
Oh and BTW I want to apologize to Stephanie. Like I said I have been reading so much the past 2 days it is just easier for me to remember you by Steph rather that Stephanie, dragonryder, thesheofthewhatever, I get so confused. There have been more names made for you than for satan.
So my bad. I will call you Stephanie if I need to address something you said again.
And I didn't mean to make Max think I'm an idiot. I was writing my comment while you guys were commenting and I didn't see the location of my comment that someone else posted in 50s blog. I see now said the blind man.
Ok I am really confused now. What is your situation in this Vixen? In your first comment here you make it sound like you aren't on any side, that you understand why we all feel the way we do. Then things are changing to where you have had bad experiences with some of us and making us out to look as bad as Ann Marie says we are because we are upset that you go to her blog and claim your comment here wasn't posted.
Hold on Stephanie. I NEVER said I have had ANY experiences with any of you. I did say I am NOT involved. No one from any side has blatantly attacked me in print anywhere that I have ever seen.
My involvement is that I simply have a couple of you on my friends list. Just as I have a couple of 50's friends on my list.
I've said from the beginning I take no sides. It is nice to know all the back story that I never asked anyone to explain to me because now it makes a little more sense but I don't think one side is more right than the other. I think both sides are fighting a losing battle.
And Stephanie, it was NOT me that went into 50's blog and said you didn't allow my comment. I didn't even know the comment I left here was posted on 50's blog until Max said something in a previous comment here.
See how easily it is to get confused when there are 40 sides to every story.
This is from Miss Vixen's comment at 5:47:
"I don't need to because I'm not involved. No one from either side of this battle has ever done anything negative to me. I was just posting my opinion from an "outsiders" point of view."
So why on earth did she claim in the comment on Fifty's blog that she's had bad experiences with some of us?! Are there two people posting claiming they are Miss Vixen?
Ok I get it now. I'm sorry, it's been a long day, I am fighting a sinus cold. I am tired of trying to figure out who is who anymore. I'm surprised that someone hasn't pretended to be me and try to get Rip and all of them mad at me. I didn't think that the writing style on the comment on Fifty's blog was like what is here from you. You seem like a reasonable person but I don't know who to trust anymore aside from my friends at Bites and my family. I just don't know why anyone would want to get involved in this if it didn't have anything to do with them. I know you say you have friends on both sides, so I guess that's kind of like being involved.
Yes,JustWondering copied and pasted vixens reply under the liar liar blog,claiming we suppressed it. What gets me is, how would she be able to copy and paste it if we supressed it? Fifty must really think we are stupid if she thinks we wouldn't notice those descrepancies.
I very much appreciate your input vixen.It is nice to hear from someone who is neutral and who is trying to understand what is going in. Trust me, I felt I was going insane a time or two and I know what's going on. I can see how confusing this is to someone looking in.
In a future blog I will try to clarify a bit more.
I will say this though.I know I can have a foul mouth,but at least I don't hide it. Fifty acts so prim and proper,yet behind closed doors she talks like a sailor. I seen those e-mails so I know.
LOL isn't that the truth about how contradictory Fifty is in regards to foul language!
Well vixen I dont think no one here has a prob with you...but obviously someone is using your name to cause shit on fifty's blog....cuz who would gain from saying we CUT your comment???
My head has finally stopped spinning so maybe I can clear up a little of the confusion.
I posted my 1st comment here and then I logged off. I sent the entire thing I posted here to a few of the people who think that I am a Benedict Arnold for having people that I like on both sides of these fences. I sent it with a message to them saying, here is what I said on this blog so before any one of them jumps down my throat just know that it is no different that what I would say to 50 if I posted on her blog.
I think everyone can agree that I mentioned both sides in my first comment here and I never made any reference to thinking anyone is right engaging in this type of behavior.
So I am guessing (and honestly because I haven't gotten a return email re: the comment I sent out) I am just guessing that one of the people I sent my email too came to your blog to see if I truly did post it and they couldn't find it, or maybe it just wasn't live yet. who knows?
So then I'm guessing they went to 50s blog and saw that I have never posted there so they took it upon themselves to leave the comment I left you here, from the email I sent them, for her to read (for whatever purpose)
I personally don't care. Nothing I have ever written anywhere is any different then anything I would say to anyone's face.
This whole thing just furthers my belief that people love drama. And when they find their online life lacking in it they find a way to make more.
So I am going with my assumption of how my comment ended up in 2 places when I only posted it here and emailed a select group of people who may find the fact that I am even visiting this blog offensive just to get it out in the open before it was stumbled across and I was being burned at the stake.
I could be wrong. That does happen 2 or 3 times a year :) But until someone tells me I am that is what I am going with.
Seems like you have a friend that isn't trustworthy? Sorry that happened to you and that I didn't "get it" right away about what was going on.
MissVixen, I am sorry your so called friend did this to you. But you can see why there is a problem between us. A lot of fifty's friends used to be on my friends list. I did not ask them to choose sides but their friend did. You have your right to your own opinion and we here respect that. But with fifty's group, it's either their way or the highway.
Any group that thinks that their's is the only opinion in the world and everyone else is wrong, is not a group I would want to associate with. At least we might not always agree with each other, but we still respect the others opinion and don't stab each other in the back like someone does. Again, sorry your so called friend tried to cause trouble for you.
I say this in all seriousness.
If one has not been " personally attacked" by anyone then why on earth are they so curious about something that " they aren't personally involved in" Well, in any case it doesn't really matter.
Thing is, MY personal involvement with Fifty came LONG before the rest of everyone else had a problem with her. My problem, did NOT become everyone else's problem either. This was because she couldn't stop abusing people and that brought attention to her in the first place.
No one on the Bies site goes out to pick on people. We came together closer in part, due to our INDIVIDUAL issues with Fifty. She had NO idea who knew who really and as far as she was concerned she was pcking on individual people.
My first run in happened before anyone else's. I posted in some random discussion (Not started by her) and apparently, I misspelled something and used poor grammar.
This triggered her to go off and say all sorts of nasty things to me. First off, it was a fluffy discussion.... not a serius one that would raise anyone's heckles. Even though I explained that English is not my first language, this only egged her on. She proceeded to tell me to learn English and stated that I must be stupid.... I find this offensive though I am considered fluent, I am by no means perfect. I admit this, but this is certainly no reason to subject me to derision.
This event made me aware of her. I may have made a passing mention at the time to my friends but this certainly wasn't the start of the issues. She just moved on to abuse another and another until everyone took notice of her behaviour.
In essance, she is the bully out looking for a fight thinking she wouldn't get one. Thinking she was so intimidating that no one would stand up to her.... Then she realised she was wrong and wanted to cry foul.
I am of the opinion that if you start something, then you should expect something. If you come back for more, as she has.... Then you should expect more. I am really inclined to believe that she enjoys this, and this is the reason I ignore her and her nonsense. I don't want to give her the satisfaction.
Though, when she had her son send that virus to Rip.... That was passed my boundaries of ignorability. (Yes I know, not a word) How can you ignore someone when they tell another outright they are going to do it, then it really DOES happen? Had it not happened I would continue to ignore it as trash talk....
Though then I had to wonder would I be next to get one. She is bad news and I don't care if you don't agree.
She has personally proven it to me, apart from what she does to my friends. You can find the futility in this exercise, but again this isn't for you. This isn't for you to understand or try to. This is what it is and as much a losing battle as you find it, that is but your opinion.
BTW: I support my friends completely but this doesn't mean I am out there in the spotlight. I prefer to hang back.... Thank you
SSH
Vixen, I'd like you to go look at Ann Marie's blog. Did you level these criticisms at her MONTHS ago when she wouldn't shut up about what happened? Everyone at bites let it go; I can attest to that; it wasn't until Max came back and she wrote her blog about him that everyone got involved.
You don't get to start blogs bashing other people and not expect some fall out. This is the fall out. So, why don't you call your friend Ann Marie on her bullshit first? The woman has never let it go. And she never will. Even if everyone ignores her, she will still keep at it because she is the true definition of a narcissist. She can't handle the fact that everyone had simply started ignoring her.
Now, you want my friends, who've been subjected to this woman's abuse and slander for A YEAR, to what---walk away without redress? Because I don't think that's going to happen, and I certainly won't ask it of anyone.
You said Ann Marie won't rest until we become "better people" and "leave the past alone". Please tell me you're quoting her, because if you're not then we're going to have a really big problem. Because Ann Marie is in no position to arbiter the character of others and she DAMN SURE doesn't know how to leave the past alone.
Thanks for making me a liar you two :) I just told Max this morning that I have said my peace and that I wouldn't be posting here anymore but since questions were addressed of me I have come back to answer them just so no one thinks I'm a spy or anything.
SSH-I can understand why someone would shake their head and wonder why on earth I would ever come in to this mess and say a word when none of it ever personally involved me. So I will tell you why. I like a lot of these people. I like Riptide, Dana, 50, a few other people who have posted here and there and heck, even Max is starting to rub off on me. But let me first clarify that! I made my own opinion of Max based on comments I had seen him leave on peoples discussion that to the best of my knowledge weren't involved in any of this ever. But maybe that is just how he comes across. A kind of tough love eye opening kind of person, so I'm starting to think there is more to him than meets the eye even if he does have a potty mouth :) but then again, who doesn't when their buttons gets pushed. So no one jump down my throat for thinking Max was the a rude, inconsiderate, bigot. When my opinion of someone changes I let them know.
So SSH, I would see discussion after discussion and respond to it and then later that day I would go back to read other comments and the whole damn discussion would be gone or had turned into a battle ground and I had no idea why. I didn't see anything wrong with anything that was written and I started getting pissed off that because of something I knew nothing about, good discussions that I took my time commenting to were being removed because someone was innocuously bashing another user in them. So I started reading. And after reading and reading and reading some more I just wanted to leave my opinion. I'm sorry I didn't have a horror story to contribute to this blog but I just wanted to show my appreciation for the information that was being provided and offer my opinion on the whole matter. That is why I ever posted here.
Dana I never knew this blog existed until I clicked the link in riptides profile. The only thing I had to go on before were a couple of PMs and rereading deleted discussions to piece together the both sides of the story. I have read 50's blog but never posted there because I never had anything to contribute in writing that I did not tell her over the phone.
I am confused when you say months ago. I have only been around for 3 months and only became aware of this animosity late January, so to answer your question, I guess No, months ago I didn't make these same criticisms to 50. Weeks ago when the whole mess over her son started, I did.
I asked her the very same questions I asked you guys. What's the point? What do you all hope to gain by this? Isn't this like fighting a losing battle? etc. etc. etc.
Not surprisingly both sides answered the same.
I don't want/expect your friends to walk away. I just wanted an answer as to what everyone thought they were gaining or hoping to accomplish by keeping it going. I got that answer.
You are damn near the top of my list of people from myLot that I actually enjoy so I would never assume that I know better than you or anyone else who has lived this nightmare on what is best for them or tell them how they should handle it. I just wanted to know why both sides were choosing to handle it the way they were.
And yes I was quoting. Loungeact (I will say loungeact because I will not play the game of who wrote what) wrote a now deleted discussion and in it I commented that "I know there is good in everyone but it is not my job to find it" Loungeact commented me back saying, they know there is good in everyone too but they see it as their mission to find it and bring it to the surface for everyone to see in the hopes of making them better people.
If I have to come back and comment again I will be sure to make it known I am quoting someone even though I almost see humor in you picking up on this particular line in my first comment here but no one will see anything wrong here about me calling her a cyber terrorist.
Based on what is still available to be read by someone who never had to live this, I for one, cannot say who is responsible for what happened first, third, last, forth, or seventy sixth. I have seen mean, angry, hateful, unbelievable things said by both sides.
And I have one hell of a mouth on me so for me to sit back and say OMG it has got to be pretty bad.
So I hope this answered your questions.
I will continue to check back here every once in a while because I KNOW there is plenty more that I have missed and even though I say it doesn't make sense to me I don't like to be made to look like an idiot anymore than anyone else.
So if there is something someone feels needs my attention some of you know where to find me.
To vixen.. I understand where you're comming from and for a little while I asked the same question. That was until I watched as they did indeed let it go. They listened to my advice and dropped it and moved on with life and forgot all about Fifty and her crap.
Then in Jan Max came back from his "break" and the moment he posted his first post at mylot Fifty was at it again. He never said anything about her or even about all the things of the past.. yet here she was posting a blog again to flame him.
Even after that I again pleaded with them to just ignore her and let it go.. and again they did..
Yet like before she stared again. So you see, they have taken the high road many many many times...they've tried to ignore her and just let it go and be the bigger people. However, it is extremely asinine to expect them to sit back and let her bash them all over the internet and not defend themselves.
She's got blogs all over the net talking about them and bad mouthing them, why, because she doesn't like them.. so the fuck what.
She's tried over and over to get their site shut down.. why? Cause its a private site where people can talk and say what they want.
Frankly none of this would be going on if she would have just left things alone. No one gave a damn about her blog until she started putting their names in it. Yet she says they stalk her.. WTF ever.
If anything she needs to grow the fuck up and stop harrassing them. If she doesn't like the stuff they say.. simply avoid reading it. So until she stops her shit.. I guess it'll keep going on.
Vixen I feel the need to clarify. I wrote my comment to you before I figured out who you were, so if I sounded harsh, I apologize.
We're all a little on edge about this. I never was involved before and I'm still not really involved, except that I have witnessed Ann Marie drag this nonsense out far beyond what was prudent, and even when I encouraged everyone to just let it go, Ann Marie refused to drop it. She even went as far as to involve people who were never involved in the original argument. By that I mean me. She named my name on her blog as being one of the "cancers". Pretty stupid of her even if I say so myself. She's fortunate I didn't retaliate with the full measure of my fury.
Basically, it would be the equivalent of me slamming you simply because you are friends with her. Not only would it be unfair but it would be wrong and you would be right in coming after me.
I have encouraged everyone in the past to let things go, but as long as Ann Marie keeps writing about people she doesn't like in her blog, I'm afraid I can't in good conscience ask my friends to cease and desist.
They have a right to defend themselves against being called "cancers" and "trolls".
I have to say one more thing:
Ann Marie is crazy. Not funny, unique, slightly bent, "she so crazy!" kind of crazy, but truly, madly, deeply, needs to be in the care of professionals nuts. The kind of nuts that makes you think you're going nuts just by being around it. I've been reading this woman's tripe, first on Mylot and then on her blog, and I have to say that she is about as narcissistic and deluded and just plain spiteful as they come.
Now, why do I say this? Because it's true. You can read for yourself. Let's go ahead and set aside the crap that happened a year ago. Let's focus on what has happened in the last month, shall we?
She pretended to be her sick kid, but only AFTER she got caught pretending to be a middle aged man. She said her "son" had to pretend to be a middle aged man, but tell me, does that make ANY sense? I mean, why would he have to hide the fact that he's 24? How does it equate? And tell me how does her son just happen to write exactly like his mother? And why, when I look back through all "his" posts, does it all sound EXACTLY like Ann Marie?
Because it was and is Ann Marie. And I can't believe you all bought her lame explanations. All those online make out sessions were happening with Ann Marie, not Devon.
The fact is that Ann Marie came back to Mylot pretending to be a man and when Max called her out she suddenly became her cancer stricken son.
Now, she doesn't get to lie and deceive with impunity and then write blogs about what liars we are.
And her friends, many of whom knew the whole time who she was and went along with the deception, don't get to cry "Why does it matter? Who is she hurting?" It matters because this woman CRUSADED to get people banned from mylot in addition to getting Mylotbites taken down so she doesn't get to come back with a new identity as if nothing happened, all the while publishing garbage on her blog about others.
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